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The Fumble
November 18, 2009 in Christian literature, Max Lucado, at work, changed life stories, church, co-workers, fear, hardness, how, invitations, links, making the connection, obedience, openness, our impact, our words, quotations, real-life stories, receiving Christ, recommendations, right words, success / failure, testimonies, their responses, uncomfortable, what to say, who, willingness, workplace | Leave a comment
You were nervous. You shifted your weight from one leg to the other as you began to speak.
“Uh, fellows,” you started.
We turned and looked up at you.
“I, uh, I just wanted, uh, to invite . . .”
You were way out of your comfort zone. I had no idea what you might be about to say, but I knew that it had nothing to do with work.
“I just wanted to tell you that, uh, our church is having a service tonight and, uh . . .”
”What?” I couldn’t believe it. “He’s talking church? Out here? With us?”
“I wanted to invite any of you to come along.”
Silence. Screaming silence.
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Have you been there?
You were uncomfortable and perhaps after your fumbling attempt you thought of what a mess you made of the whole situation. You re-think and analyze what you said and did. You apologize to God for your “failure” at witnessing. You are embarrassed for presenting “church” instead of Jesus.
Wait a minute! God is sovereign and is not hampered by our humanity. God used this man’s apparent failed attempt to invite construction workers to church. Max Lucado was laying pipe that summer and was with the workmen on their lunch break. Five years later, he remembered this man and gave his life over to Christ.
Your efforts may have seemed insignificant or even like they were wasted. God sees the bigger picture, however. You don’t know what God will do. Just be available to Him.
NOTE: The above excerpt is from Max Lucado’s testimony in Chapter Seven of In the Eye of the Storm. Read the entire story online on Google Books.. Search for “Thanks for the Bread” which will take you to the chapter heading.
The Ministry Around You
November 6, 2009 in God's love, God's sovereignty, Holy Spirit, ambassadors for Christ, available, being salt and light, busyness, go, how to share your faith, links, live the life, making the connection, openness, opportunities, our impact, prepared, real-life stories, their responses, willingness | Leave a comment
Recently, I had the incredible privilege of talking to seven people in twenty-four hours about the hope and forgiveness they can find in Jesus Christ!
Each encounter is its own story, so I will try to write them individually in the next week or two. Until then, here’s an overview of the amazing twenty-four hour day.
No Fear
October 21, 2009 in available, how, hurdles, in the news, inconvenienced, links, openness, our attitudes, our impact, our words, patience, prepared, real-life stories, recommendations, right words, speak up, success / failure, their responses, video, what to say, when, where, who, willingness | Leave a comment
The next time you are fearful about sharing your faith, remember this 92-year-old woman.
Caring for the Earth … and for People
September 8, 2009 in connecting on the internet, everyone, how, how to share your faith, internet evangelism, links, making the connection, openness, opportunities, prepared, real-life stories, recommendations, religious people, service providers, their issues, their responses, video, web sites, what, what to say, where, who, who is Jesus? | 2 comments
I glanced at a jade pendant dangling about two feet from my face.
“Your necklace is interesting,” I said as Lindsay tied a latex strap around my arm.
“It is a Japanese good luck charm,” Lindsay said, as she gently tapped my vein.
I found out within a few minutes that this young phlebotomist was a Buddhist.
“That’s obviously your choice,” I commented, looking at her pale skin and blue eyes. “Why did you choose Buddhism?”
“I like the way they respect all of life. That’s also why I went into this work.”
I commended her for wanting to help people and then asked, “Well, did you know that Christianity also teaches us to take care of the earth?”
No,” Lindsay admitted.
I encouraged Lindsay to go to my blog site to watch a YouTube presentation of the Good News. I wrote down the blog address on a piece of paper and then asked, “Will you take some time to investigate what Christianity really is?”
Lindsay assured me that she would.
I left the clinic rejoicing for God’s work in Lindsay’s life.
NOTE: Sending her to the right link was a little complicated, but I have improved this technique. Click here for more ideas about sharing web addresses when witnessing.
The Lived Out Gospel by Judy Douglass
August 27, 2009 in Campus Crusade, God's love, Holy Spirit, ambassadors for Christ, being salt and light, how, internationals, live the life, openness, opportunities, our actions, our attitudes, our words, overseas, perspective, real-life stories, showing love, their responses, thoughts, traveling, what to say, where | Leave a comment
The young woman who would be my seatmate on a flight from Ghana had a very heavy carry-on bag. The overhead bin seemed full, but the coat of the man in front of us was taking up half of it. He told her that her bag was too big and that was his space. He was rude. She was bewildered. I spoke up, reminding him calmly but firmly that the bin was shared space and his coat could go on top of the suitcase. He grumbled as he lifted his coat out. I helped her lift her bag.
Later the young woman turned to me and said, “Why are you so different? Why did you do that for me?” We had a wonderful conversation about our Lord. This is evidence of the lived out gospel. (I wish I always lived it out well.)
When we share Christ with someone who doesn’t know us, God can use the combined power of the truth of the gospel and His grace to open a heart to repentance and salvation even using imperfect vessels like us to communicate His message. But often winning takes time and relationship, especially in a generation where relationship is supreme. We must live out the gospel before them even as we tell them the truth.
What does the lived out gospel look like? God gives us many characteristics of the Spirit-filled life as evidence of this. Three stand out to me as key.
Without question, the first is love. The Lord Jesus Himself said the first commandment is to love God, then others. He even said we are to love as He loved, which was to lay down his life. Are we to lay down our lives for others? Some of us may be asked to make that sacrifice. But most of us give our lives to people in love by giving of our time, our abilities, our finances. Sometimes love is just being there. Other times we love by listening, encouraging, praying. Sometimes we give the shirts off our backs, or buy a meal or provide shelter.
This lived out love that gives is a powerful witness.
A second witness is grace. Grace is often an unclear or vague concept for us, so here are a few synonyms to help us grasp the meaning of this essential truth: mercy, forgiveness, benevolence, charity, clemency, compassion, favor, forbearance, generosity, good will, goodness, indulgence, kindliness, kindness, leniency, pardon, reprieve, responsiveness, tenderness.
Grace doesn’t hold a grudge, or refuse to forgive, or demand what’s due or insist on its own way. Grace does overlook an offense, extend time or help, speak kindly when verbally attacked, believe the best about another.
Lived out grace is also a powerful witness.
A third evidence of walking with God is authenticity. How many times have you heard someone say something about “hypocrites in the church”? Authenticity means we speak truth in a generation with no absolutes, we live what we say as much as possible, we wear no masks. We consider the impact our words and actions have on those watching. We are even willing to be vulnerable. Those are risky actions. We could be misunderstood, disapproved of, even shunned—or taken advantage of. But we wouldn’t be hypocrites. We would be true, real—authentic.
And lived out authenticity is a powerful witness.
My prayer for you and for myself is that we will live out the gospel so that people actually see Jesus in us.
Used by permission from Judy Douglass
What if Starbucks Marketed Like a Church? A Parable.
July 30, 2009 in church, how, humor, links, opportunities, our impact, perspective, success / failure, their responses, video | Leave a comment
Meaningful Tweets
July 20, 2009 in Twitter, connecting on the internet, how, interactive, internet evangelism, links, making the connection, ministries, opportunities, recommendations, what to say | Leave a comment
John Piper sees Twitter as an opportunity to add something meaningful to the Twittersphere. Read more of his perspective on using Twitter to minister.
Here are a few examples from his Twitter page:
DEALING WITH YOUR SIN: Don’t minimize how many times you’ve failed. But magnify how firmly they’ve been nailed (Col. 2:14).
Through the years I sought peace. I found ecstasy, anguish, madness, loneliness. But peace I did not find. Bertrand Russell
“I have no business to object to the universe as long as I have nothing to offer myself–and we are all bankrupt.” CS Lewis
NOTE: You can also subscribe through RSS feed if you would like to receive his Tweets in your reader.
I have added his Tweets to The Sower sidebar.
The Delivery
July 10, 2009 in Christians, JWs, how, how to share your faith, humor, making the connection, our actions, real-life stories, religious people, shopping, their responses, thoughts, tracts, what, what to say, where, who | Leave a comment
“Would you like to have this magazine?”
I stared at the Awake magazine twenty inches from my face.
Startled, I replied, “no way!” I kept walking and reflected on the encounter. I thought some other shoppers probably will take offense at these two women walking the store aisles like they do when going door-to-door in our neighborhoods.
Someone later suggested to me that I should complain to the store management. That thought also flitted through my mind as I headed to the grocery section. I decided I really did not want to see a sign on the store window saying: “The distribution of literature is prohibited.” After all, I hand out tracts regularly in stores.
Two minutes later, someone stopped me.
“M’aam, which one of these would be better in potato salad?”
I turned around and looked into the smiling dark face of a man in his early sixties. We discussed the merits of regular dill relish or relish with larger chunks.
As I began to leave, he still had a pickle jar in each hand. I offered “The Passage” tract to him and tucked it under his thumb.
“Thank you!“ He beamed, “I know the Lord!”
“Well, then you can share that with someone else,” I suggested.
“I will,” he promised.
I could not help thinking of the contrast of these two encounters. They were close in time and space but they were worlds apart in delivery.
Eduardo’s Wife Is Dying
March 17, 2009 in "Jesus" film, DVDs, JWs, Spanish speakers, available, how, how to share your faith, hurdles, links, making the connection, mini-CD, movies, neighbors, opportunities, our actions, our impact, prayer, prepared, priority, real-life stories, recommendations, religious people, urgency, who is Jesus?, why | Leave a comment
Finally, Eduardo was stepping out to his car. I had been gardening and hoped he would come outside. I ran to get the Magdalena DVD waiting by the front door and rushed across the street.
“This is for your wife,” I explained. “It is in Spanish.”
“Thank you,” he smiled weakly, the gold glistening on his teeth.
Eduardo accepted the DVD and I went on to tell him the movie was about Jesus and about the different women He healed. He thanked me and I concluded our brief conversation with, “We are praying for you.”
I wrote about our neighbors, Eduardo and Luz, before. They are Jehovah’s Witnesses and do not speak English very well. About two years ago, they accepted a “Jesus” DVD from me. (I only recently learned that JWs are not allowed to accept literature, so maybe a DVD or the Who Is He? Mini-CD are the best things to offer them.)
In just over a year, three families near us have faced the loss of a loved one. First, a seven-year-old granddaughter died from a car accident. Soon after that Eugene, a man in his fifties, died unexpectedly of a heart attack. Now, Luz is dying at home and has daily hospice visits. I have been unable to communicate with Eduardo and Luz, but I have noticed her housekeeper has a Christian radio station bumper sticker on her car. I hope she has explained the Gospel to them and will also pray that Luz will be able to watch the Magdalena DVD and accept God’s free gift of life eternal or that God will miraculously heal her for His glory and to lead many of her family and JW friends to Christ!
This is also a reminder to all of us that we may not have more time to share with the people in our lives.
Internet Evangelism Day
March 11, 2009 in Facebook, changed life stories, computers, connecting on the internet, how, how to share your faith, interactive, internet evangelism, links, opportunities, our impact, recommendations, training in witnessing, video, what | Leave a comment
Internet evangelism has a lot of potential and is very rewarding, too. This year’s Internet Evangelism Day is on April 26, 2009.
I hope you will take the time to watch the video, explore the website, and pray about what you can do to promote internet evangelism. The website has a lot of resources so you can find something that you could do to reach people for Christ over the internet. Also, please comment here or ask questions if this is something you are interested in.
The website has resources you can use all year. Learn more.

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